Excerpt About Surrender
Surrendering PossessionsSurrendering our thoughts, feelings, judgments, preferences, and desires doesn’t mean that these things disappear but that we don't have them in the same way. They just come and go. We don’t hold on to them as possessions. They are not vital for us. Maybe we can learn to be that poor inside. But then, as we begin to have experiences of reality, of essence, of awakening, the ego wants to possess these too. We believe that essence, spirit, and inner states belong to us, that we accomplished them. Havingness is back again. We might even believe we have virtues like patience, humility, courage, equanimity, and so on. On a spiritual path, the ego can become rich again, can come to possess a wonderful inner panorama, the panorama of spirit.